The Feminine wound of Masculine Extraction

Almost every woman I work with has experienced a man wanting to Dive into her Feminine depths and becoming uncontrollably intoxicated by her sensual delights.

For us as women, it is beautiful to be desired, to feel see, wanted, adored by a man

But where it gets murky is when He CANNOT hold, contain or direct his thirst or desire for HER ..

When he has not learnt containment. There is a moment where his primal takes over... As if a Blood Lust overtakes his entire being.

And suddenly she can feel that all he wants to do it Take from her, Extract from Her, and then unknowingly leave her baren, barren and heartbroken when the lust wears off.

Shakti IS the pulse of life moving through our bodies.

She is the CREATRIX and the birther of worlds.

She is the sweetness and the YEARNING.

She is the pulse and the PLEASURE.

She is utterly divine

But when a man becomes utterly lost and in lust with in her energy, body or pleasure, he begins to feel UNSAFE to her.

When he looses awareness of her needs, wants, or even how to protect her (even from himself)... He has totally lost contact with is biggest gift - CONCIOUSNESS (Shiva energy).

This is a collective wound I dare say ALL women have experienced in their lives.. The wound of extraction. The fear of being objectified in ways that are not of service to our heart, our soul or our pussy...

And it can leave us feeling USED and discarded (like the way we endlessly mine our sacred planet earth)

Not cherished.

Not chosen.

Not protected.

If THIS is how a man treats a woman, and we as women continue to LET them, there is truly no hope for this world we live in.

This is not about victimization or blame.. its about healthy ownership and understanding the gifts of the opposite energy.

What I see, is the only way forward for us a collective is to REPAIR these painful discretions, on both sides

For MEN, that is learning how to express their desire in primal, heart open and grounded ways ..And for WOMEN its to have healthy enough boundaries, a strong inner spine and the ability to say NO before things go too far.

The only way forward for our planet, for our relationships, for the betterment of our species is TOGETHER

Union IS the path of deep repair.

It is not for the light hearted.

It is not easy or without challenge.

But it is one that will change the face of HOW we as humans live, how we treat each other, and how we live in harmony - Yin & Yang - the way we were designed to.

Yours in Devotion to Love & Eros

xxx Bree