- Feb 4, 2026
Why I speak the way I do about relationships
It breaks my heart to hear women speak about men with disgust and contempt.
It shocks me that after all men have done to build, protect and keep us safe, there is still so much resentment and hostility between the genders.
That is not the path I walk.
I have been the woman who judged and tried to control men. I fought against their strengths and hardened my heart in the process. That way of relating caused, me years of self-induced suffering .
There came a moment where my old way was no longer possible...something deep in me had shifted, permanently.
I began engaging with men in a way that was softer and heart-led.
Not because men are perfect, but because polarity, intentionality and devotion are sacred forces when brought into a relationship consciously.
I became a woman who genuinely loves men.
Who adores how they enhance my life.
Who recognises the gift of contrast that flows through polarity and union between two bodies.
And this is why I talk about men the way I do.
I teach women how to repair their hearts.
How to honour their devotional nature.
How to trust their bodies, reclaim their eros and soften without collapsing
Because until men and women learn to meet each other with love respect and devotion again, the world remains out of balance.
You can call me idealistic if you want... I am a romantic.
And I am also a visionary.
I know that deep intimacy and sacred union are what most of us are truly longing for, in our heart of hearts. I have witnessed this again and again..
This is the path I am called to walk.. my soul knows no other way.
Women who feel aligned to this approach find their way to my work; Devotional Woman, embodiment workshops or my monthly circles.
So if this lands, welcome sister. Lets walk this path, together.
Yours in devotion to love, union and eros
xx Bree