Why Sovereignty matters just as much as safety.

People tell me time and time again how I create such a safe space in my workshop environments.

It always feels great to hear this but I also know there are layers here. What feels safe for one person may not for another.

It is very individual and unique.

Further, I believe there is something that matters just as much as safety...

Self responsibility. Sovereignty.

In my intimacy and erotic workshops, this is the most crucial thing I endeavour to create for my participants -

A place where you notice your own patterns

Where you can be with yourself, even if that's uncomfortable

Where you can pause, ask for help, make noise, cry, ask for comfort or simply watch.

Safety is something I can invite you into but I cannot create it for you... the same can be said of Sovereignty.

As the Facilitator, I can show you the way, but you must take the steps.

Do the hard thing.

Get brave.

Get uncomfortable.

Try something beyond your usual patterns.

That is how we grow.

That is also how we find our spine, our strength and get a clearer knowing of what is right for us beyond the patterns of trauma we all subtly hold in our bodies.

My workshop and play spaces are an invitation into SOVEREIGNTY.

I am not here to fix you because you are not broken.

I am also not here to help you continue to hide from yourself, or project your stuff onto others.

Whether you are eye gazing, sharing touch, making an ask or sitting alone...

Can you stay with yourself without abandoning your needs, desires, voice and your heart?

This is the foundation of my entire body of work and why the spaces I create are not just 'tantric temple nights' or 'consent workshops'.

Intimacy is at the core of who we are.

Deepening our relationship to this part of ourselves is a never ending journey.

Yours in Fierce Devotion,

xx Bree